Board Certified in Family Law
Texas Child Custody Attorney
Conservatorship, possession schedules, modification and relocation. Texas does not use the word custody. It uses conservatorship, possession and access — three separate questions that people collapse into one, and that courts decide separately.
Conservatorship is about decisions, not overnights
Conservatorship is the bundle of parental rights and duties: who decides on schooling, on non-emergency medical care, on psychiatric treatment, who can access records, who holds the right to determine the child's primary residence. Texas starts from a rebuttable presumption that naming both parents joint managing conservators is in the child's best interest (Tex. Fam. Code § 153.131).
Joint managing conservatorship does not mean equal time. It is common for parents to be joint managing conservators while one holds the exclusive right to determine primary residence and the other has a possession schedule. Parents who hear "joint" and assume "half" are frequently surprised, and that surprise is usually avoidable with a clear explanation early.
Possession and access — the schedule
Texas has a standard possession order, and there is a rebuttable presumption that it provides reasonable minimum possession and is in the child's best interest (Tex. Fam. Code § 153.252). Its general terms apply without regard to how far apart the parents live (Tex. Fam. Code § 153.316); distance changes the weekend and holiday mechanics, not the framework.
Judges depart from the standard order when the facts warrant it — a child under three, a work schedule that makes Thursday evenings impossible, a parent who has not been part of the child's daily life, safety concerns. Departures are argued, not assumed.
Best interest is the whole test
Every conservatorship and possession question in Texas runs through one standard: the best interest of the child is always the primary consideration (Tex. Fam. Code § 153.002). The public policy behind it is written into the code — frequent and continuing contact with parents who have shown they can act in the child's best interest, a safe and stable environment, and shared rights and duties after separation (Tex. Fam. Code § 153.001).
One provision the code makes explicit: a court may not condition a parent's right to possession or access on paying child support. Support and possession are separate obligations. Withholding a child over unpaid support is not self-help — it is a violation of the order.
Does the child get to choose?
Not exactly, and the difference matters. On the application of a party, the court shall interview a child 12 or older in chambers about conservatorship or about who determines primary residence, and may interview a younger child (Tex. Fam. Code § 153.009). The judge hears the child's wishes. The judge is not bound by them.
Where a child's stated preference does carry independent weight is modification: a child 12 or older expressing a preference to the court in chambers is one of the statutory grounds for modifying conservatorship (Tex. Fam. Code § 156.101).
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Common Questions
Does Texas favor mothers in custody cases?
No. Texas Family Code § 153.003 prohibits the court from considering the sex of a parent or the child in determining conservatorship. The governing standard is the best interest of the child under § 153.002, and § 153.131 creates a rebuttable presumption that appointing both parents joint managing conservators serves that interest.
Does joint custody mean equal time?
No. Joint managing conservatorship under Texas Family Code § 153.131 allocates decision-making rights and duties between the parents. It is separate from the possession schedule. Parents are commonly named joint managing conservators while one holds the exclusive right to determine the child's primary residence and the other exercises a possession order.
Can my 12-year-old decide which parent to live with?
A child cannot decide, but a child 12 or older has a right to be heard. Under Texas Family Code § 153.009, on a party's application the judge must interview a child 12 or older in chambers about conservatorship or about who determines primary residence. The judge weighs the child's wishes alongside every other best-interest factor and is not bound by them.
Can I stop visitation if my ex is behind on child support?
No, and doing so puts you in violation of the order. Texas Family Code § 153.001(b) forbids a court from conditioning a conservator's right to possession or access on the payment of child support. The two obligations are enforced separately. Unpaid support is addressed through an enforcement action, not by withholding the child.
What does it take to change a custody order?
Under Texas Family Code § 156.101, modification requires that the change be in the child's best interest plus one of several grounds: a material and substantial change in circumstances since the order was rendered, a child 12 or older telling the court in chambers who they want to determine primary residence, or the conservator with that right having voluntarily relinquished primary care for at least six months.
What is a standard possession order?
It is the possession schedule set out in Subchapter F of Chapter 153. Texas Family Code § 153.252 creates a rebuttable presumption that it provides reasonable minimum possession for a parent named possessory conservator or joint managing conservator and is in the child's best interest. Section 153.316 sets general terms that apply regardless of how far apart the parents live.
Lisa G. Garza is Board Certified in Family Law by the Texas Board of Legal Specialization and has practiced in this area for more than 30 years.